The country i live in women press charges against men all the time for harassment, in some cases they just do it to get something or to ruin the guys life.
I'm just gonna guess that you must also live in the US of A... Well to be honest I think a lot of the stigma attached to women in the workplace and the potential for sexual harassment is partially urban legend. The greatest fear of "man" is fear of the unknown, and that is exactly what you are staring at when you ponder questions such as these. I believe if you were to actually work with your average woman you wouldn't have these fears and this wouldn't even be a consideration...
Also make sure your not talking with one of their friends instead of a previous employer by asking questiosn that only the employer would know.
Here in the US it is against the law for a former employer to answer ANY questions about a previous employee except their position, title, and dates of employment. If you can prove that a previous employer said more than that, they are liable in a court of law. Now, that isn't to say they won't tell you whatever you ask, as if it could be proven by anyone...
Also, about the camera thing - my previous employer had a camera in every room except the tech room. He was a freak about that sort of thing. It started with being security for the front end of the store, then the parking lot in front of the store, then security for the rear exits. One will be in the tech room before long I guarantee. So there's nothing to stop you from doing that.
Just remember if you're gonna be a freak about it, to use cameras that record voice as well. Sexual harassment can be verbal as well. I currently work for a non-profit dedicated to the victims of domestic abuse and sexual assault. Trust me on that one.
Regardless, to the OP if you say you are apprehensive about hiring women for this reason, but
also say you would still hire one that is
QUALIFIED, then
I don't understand your question to the community... Would you be looking for a potential mate in the hiring process or are you simply hiring a tech?? If it's the former, then don't worry about it!!! If it's the latter, then by all means hire a male or you WILL get yourself into trouble down the road at some point...
Otherwise just hire whoever is most qualified for your position. What's the argument?!?
And what even brought this on? Do you have a qualified female applicant already that you are considering? Is that person more qualified than your male applicants? Is that person "hot"??? Did you interview a woman and did it go well or not?
I'm afraid this thread might turn into a misogynistic stack of B.S. Be careful where you're taking this...