I see, I would never of guessed so. I did actually set the servers ethernet adapter to the details as you outlined however I had no idea to disable DHCP on router and set it up on the server. Thing is if I disable DHCP on the router I'd have to get everything setup and working properly the same day or the lack of DHCP on the router will stop them from using the internet. So many problems!
Glad your learning, but this is exactly why everyone said do this in a test lab first! You have to bring services down sometimes, especially internet. If you don't know how to mitigate that, or do the swap quickly enough (or how quick quickly enough is) for it not to matter, you are going break something. And what happens when you flip that switch, and something (like DNS) isn't set up correctly? Nothing works. Its all broke. Now your moral is very low, and your buddy is cursing you because you broke his network. Assuming you know what is borked, you can fix it fast, but will you know whats wrong? Do you know what you can do for work-arounds? Do you even know how to troubleshoot AD/DHCP/DNS issues? Have you set this all up in a test environment and broke it, just to see what happens?
I would like to reiterate what I said before, with a bit more detail:
TEST, TEST, TEST!! Take your "server" box home, set it up on your home network. Join your home machines to your AD. Create a couple virtual boxes on your home machines and join those to! Disable DHCP on your home gear, configure DNS on your home gear. Find out what happens to a network after a couple days running 2 DHCP servers, or how long it takes to lose the net without a DHCP server (heres a hint, longer than you would think). What happens when you point your DNS to the wrong place (or just set it up wrong)!
I'm reading this thread, going "man, this is AD server enviroment 101!" So I'll say it again, TEST, TEST, TEST, before install! And after your done testing, blow out every box you used, reload them, set it all back up (without the mistakes you learned about the first time), test it all again, blow the server out again, set it up offsite, configured for the site, bring it in and install! Your buddy will be happy that it all works right, you will be happy that you know how to make it work right. And nothing important goes down for more than a minute, if that...
Good luck man, not tryin to bring ya down, just tryin to highlight your difficulties as I see em!