God, Nathan, why bother posting if you can't offer any advice???
It is my heartfelt belief that leadership can't be hired into a small business. Maybe management skills can be, but building a business takes a committment that few (if any) employees could/would give. It's different in a large company where hiring CEO's is normal. But they're slightly outside my budget Although maybe Bill Gates would like something part-time now that he's at a loose end. I can certainly outsource some of the "everything else" role I spoke of earlier. Phone answering, accounts even marketing donkey work like cold calling/list compiling etc. However, EVERY successful small business I know has the owner fulfilling the business leadership/growth role and not the technical one, at least no more than occaisonally. And by small business I DON'T mean SOHO or Mom'n'Pop operations. That's what I'm aiming for, a couple of dozen techs, large corporate and national accounts, multiple locations... the whole shooting match. That cannot be built by a guy installing servers all day every day.
The rub here is that not everyone is that person. Just because someone is knowledgeable enough to put together a network doesn't mean that they are qualified or knowledgeable enough to really manage and incubate a business properly. I knew I wanted to work in computers at a very young age, but when I went to college I changed my major from CIS to business management after my first semester. This was necessary to get the knowledge base that would allow me to successfully execute the plan I had for my business.
Reading your posts so far, it seems like there are mixed messages. In a lot of ways it really seems like you would never give up your position, which says a lot about your entrepreneurial spirit. However, the fact that you have been ignoring the business side of your business should be a red flag. If you don't love it, and really want to do it, then it's going to be a struggle to make yourself work at the things you are currently ignoring.