My bother and dad are hams. They both built their own radios and have quite a bit of electronics knowledge. My dad is passed now, and my brother is 20 yrs. older than me. A different era of hams.
I have a General license, passed the test in 2015 or so. Went to a couple meetings/swap meets, did a little on 75 meters. Got tired of the constant shaming - "Oh you didn't have to learn CW. Oh, you didn't build your own radio and antenna." Newbies are looked down upon and ridiculed by these guys. I didn't need that drama, so I figured the hobby wasn't worth my time, lol.
Sold the radio/antennas, done with it. I really don't have the free time to devote to learning CW and building a radio from scratch.